You're both here. That's the hardest step already.
Now let us show you how to become the team your blended family needs.
Watch this short video to see how the BLND3D Blueprint helps couples stop surviving and start leading together.
Begin the BLND3D Blueprint today.
You've been trying to solve a couple problem as individuals.
Blending isn't hard because you're bad at it. You're merging households, parenting styles, histories, and loyalties that were never designed to fit together. Every decision has extra layers. And most advice out there was written for first families, so it keeps missing.
The couples who make it aren't luckier or more in love. They have structure. Agreed roles. Shared rules. A way to talk about the hard stuff before it turns into a fight. That's a system, and a system can be rebuilt. Together.
This isn't therapy. It's not a generic relationship course. It's not another self-help download you'll never open.
It's a six-month guided program built for one thing. Getting you and your partner on the same team so your home can finally feel like home.
Four pillars. Built from lived experience, not a textbook.
We built H.O.M.E. because nothing we tried was made for blended families. It works because it fixes the couple first, then builds the structure of the home around you. In that order.
Honesty
You can't lead what you won't look at. We help you name what's actually driving the disconnection, so you finish knowing exactly what you're working with as a couple. No more guessing.
Ownership
Most blended couples fight the same battles because they've never agreed on the rules. We get you aligned on parenting, boundaries, and the values your home runs on. A united front outside drama can't dismantle.
Momentum
Getting aligned is one thing. Living aligned is another. We turn what you've agreed on into the rhythm of your actual life. Rules the kids can count on, routines that stop the weekly overload.
Ecosystem
Progress doesn't hold itself. Life keeps coming. Repair tools, connection rituals, and the framework to keep leading through every new season the family moves through.
By month six, you're not relying on us anymore. You've got what you need to lead on your own.
What changes when you become a team again.
You're not buying a curriculum. You're rebuilding a home, together. Here's what that feels like by month six.
Instead of living in survival mode, you can breathe again. Stronger together, building the family you set out to create.
Begin the BLND3D Blueprint today.
We're not relationship coaches who studied this. We're a blended couple who lives it.
Five years blended. Five kids. Three households. Two exes. Endless handovers, sports weekends, and logistics that could break the strongest couple.
We've had the guilt. The burnout. The fights that left us wondering if any of this was worth it. And we figured out a way through, together. Then we built the framework that did it.
We're both bio-parents AND step-parents. We've lived the guilt from both sides. We know the bio-parent terrified of rocking the boat with the ex, and the step-parent feeling invisible and unsupported. We've walked in both pairs of shoes.
We coach the couple, not just one of you. Because if the couple isn't okay, the family isn't okay. Every part of the framework is built to get the two of you on the same team.
And you're never guessing alone. Every phase ends with a personalised plan built around your relationship and your family, and we personally review every one.
Real words from real couples.
"We're too deep in the chaos for this to help." She'd moved into her partner's home with his two girls. The ex was creating constant pressure. She was crying every night.
I felt like I was doing all this work to hold things together and nobody could see it.
The biggest shift was realising we do actually have a really good relationship underneath all the chaos. We just needed someone to help us see it.
"We already tried counselling and it didn't work." They'd hit a wall they weren't sure they could come back from, and left counselling without practical steps.
Working with them gave us real clarity in areas we were stuck and a way of thinking we hadn't heard from anyone else. No taking sides, just honest coaching from people who've been there themselves.
Ready to start?
This isn't a choice between products. It's the same full six-month program either way, everything open on day one. The only question is how you'd like to pay. Rolling enrolment, so you start when you're ready.
Then $150 USD per month for 6 months. One payment per month, matching the pace of the program.
$1,097 USD total
- The full six-month guided program, everything open on day one
- The couples work, both of you in it
- Private access to Brit + Josh five days a week
- A personalised couple plan, personally reviewed each phase
- Private community of committed couples
Begin the BLND3D Blueprint today for $197.
One payment. $100 less than the plan overall.
- The full six-month guided program, everything open on day one
- The couples work, both of you in it
- Private access to Brit + Josh five days a week
- A personalised couple plan, personally reviewed each phase
- Private community of committed couples
Begin the BLND3D Blueprint today, paid in full.
Want dedicated private time with us? Private Implementation Sessions are available separately at $197 USD, whenever you want to work through something in more depth. Completely optional. Private message access and your plan reviews are already included in the program.
Genuinely undecided after the video? Book a short Fix My Family Call and we'll help you work out whether the Blueprint is the right fit. No pressure either way.
The honest answers.
Because real change in a blended family takes time. Not because you're slow. Because the dynamics are complex.
The first two months are about getting honest. Understanding your patterns, naming the resentment, seeing where things actually broke down.
The middle two months are about building. Getting aligned on parenting, boundaries, and how your home actually runs. This is where the frameworks go in and the old habits get replaced.
The final two months are about making it stick. Routines, rituals, repair tools. This is what separates couples who change for six months from couples who change for good.
Six months also means less pressure on you both. You're not racing through modules while managing five kids and a full-time job. You have space to implement, reflect, and actually live what you're learning before the next piece lands.
We know how busy blended family life can be, so we've built The BLND3D Blueprint with that in mind. Expect 1 to 2 hours per week working through the core curriculum and completing the worksheets together. You can message us privately five days a week as you go, and we personally review your plan at the end of every phase. If you want dedicated private time, you can book an optional Private Implementation Session.
Three ways, and two of them are included. First, private access to us five days a week. Message us privately when you need help applying the program to your relationship and family, and bring us the real moments as they happen.
Second, at the end of every phase we personally review your personalised plan and give you feedback based on what's happening in your relationship and family.
Third, if you want dedicated private time with us, you can book a Private Implementation Session for $197 USD. You don't need sessions to get personal guidance. The program is complete without them.
No. We're not therapists. We're coaches, and a real blended couple who've lived this.
Most therapy isn't built for blended families. You spend half the session just explaining your setup. And while therapy often focuses on exploring past trauma, The BLND3D Blueprint is actionable and forward-focused. We give you specific frameworks, scripts, and systems to implement today.
If you need trauma work, we recommend working with a professional alongside this program.
This is one of the most common concerns we hear, and it's usually the male partner who's hesitant.
Blended family challenges are couple problems, not individual problems. If only one person is doing the work, you're still trying to solve a team issue on your own.
A lot of men resist "relationship courses" because they assume they're going to be blamed or lectured. But when they see Josh, a blended dad and step-dad, teaching alongside Brit, it changes the dynamic. He gets it from the male perspective, and that makes all the difference.
Often, partners who were initially hesitant become fully engaged once they realise this isn't about blame. It's about getting on the same team. If your partner is resistant, we can help you navigate how to invite them in without pressure.
If your partner truly won't engage right now, look at The BETTER Half, our solo-partner program built for exactly this situation.
No. The BLND3D Blueprint is built for blended couples. While it's often the step-parent who seeks help first, the real change happens when both partners engage.
We believe that if the couple isn't okay, the family isn't okay, and the entire framework is designed to get you on the same team.
If you're both still in the relationship and willing to try, it's not too late.
Many couples join The BLND3D Blueprint when they feel like they're at breaking point, because that's when the pain of staying the same finally outweighs the fear of changing. The program gives you immediate tools to stop the bleeding, regulate the conflict, and start repairing the connection.
The BLND3D Blueprint is a 6-month guided program. At the end of the 6 months, your access to the curriculum, private message access, and community ends.
However, many couples choose to stay plugged into the accountability and support by continuing their membership at a legacy rate. We'll send you all the details on how to keep your access as you approach the end of your six months.
The BLND3D Blueprint is a high-touch guided program where we dedicate significant time and personal energy to every couple from day one. We do not offer refunds.
We encourage you to read this page carefully, ask us any questions before you join, and make sure this feels like the right fit. When you join, we are fully committed to you, and we ask for the same commitment in return.
You're both here.
Now let's rebuild this together.
Blended doesn't mean broken. The BLND3D Blueprint is how the two of you prove it in your own home.
We're Ready →Begin the BLND3D Blueprint today.
We're Brit and Josh. Five kids, three households, and a marriage that had to come first to survive it. We help blended couples and solo partners build the home they set out to create, with what actually worked in ours. Blended doesn't mean broken.
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